Humans are complex creatures with no one size fits all solution. Each individual must delve deep within themselves to understand who they are and who God has created them to be. Only in the depths of being will you face your monsters and bring order out of chaos.
The Bible warns against simple mindedness, and what does that mean exactly? It means to not go about your life unaware of who you are, to never search the depths of your being and to be conscientious of what is going on around you as well as the choices you make.
As much as it makes us uncomfortable to search the chaotic depths of ourselves where we find many things we may not really like about our mode of being, we may also find things that we never knew we were capable of doing. Only there are we able to conquer those monsters while discovering new things like talents and gifts that were undiscovered before.